tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post2698854119238586522..comments2023-10-15T15:28:32.103+01:00Comments on ♥nyemoni♥: Love your neighbours!♥♫♪nyemoni♫♪♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/06066949621681826170noreply@blogger.comBlogger68125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-72987058428888736132008-05-05T16:08:00.000+01:002008-05-05T16:08:00.000+01:00You have to update! It's been so long...You ok dea...You have to update! It's been so long...<BR/>You ok dear?Writefreakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03457464940195376970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-36632883134989367552008-05-04T19:49:00.000+01:002008-05-04T19:49:00.000+01:00hope all is well.... its been a while.hope all is well.... its been a while.Beyondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01532218065084264334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-13985702983021160602008-04-29T07:58:00.000+01:002008-04-29T07:58:00.000+01:00Mrs where are u hope all is wellKai your neighbour...Mrs where are u hope all is well<BR/><BR/>Kai your neighbour sef, na aristo she be? what kind of mother is she? doesnt she realize a baby is a gift from God, and by not taking care of that gift u are dishonouring God?<BR/>as for the help LOL@ your observations, kai she get liver, how can u leave a 1 yr old like that, does she have a heart????????<BR/><BR/>Growing up in lag, we had the best neighbors<BR/>the one across had a huge farm in his town, and would always bring us fresh supply of juicy pineapples! The landlord next door had a on of grand kids our age, so they were always over, and we were all close. The 2 boys down the street with the dysfunctional parents were crazy, and used to steal from UTC at age 10, they borrowed bro's game, and switched the inside cartridge to a razz tetris game...mumsie banned them from our house! Other next door house had 3 families pass through while we lived there. The 1st one they had 2 wives, see drama o, I was only like 3-4 and remember all this shouting, and seeing folks run out of their house. Even then our parents banned us from their house. The family that followed was amazing, we were all about the same ages, I never loved eating dinner at my house, even their uncle that would take them out for ice cream, would also take us as well and we hung out together to the point that when they moved from Lag to PH we all cried. Never saw them again for almost 20yrs lol till a few mths ago on facebook! turns out they had been wondering over the years where we were. Family that followed them was also really close to us. I remember once when the husband and wife got into a fight, and he was beating her, she was screaming Mama X (X as in my sister's name), she was screaming for my mum! We heard her in our house, and I think my mum started begging the husband, cant remember the gist.<BR/><BR/>Now in yankee, some neighbors are cool, others are too nosy. The asian woman across the street that welcomed us a few yrs ago, turns her face when u say hi, and her daughter stares at u like mumu. The ones next door are ok, they talk to my siblings general conversation, they mow our front when they mow their lawn, and we do the same.<BR/><BR/>Westernization sef get as e be!! I miss my younger years in Naija ooooGod's childhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12772222963988397221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-44863613644079655452008-04-29T07:57:00.000+01:002008-04-29T07:57:00.000+01:00This comment has been removed by the author.God's childhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12772222963988397221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-2788148740847195482008-04-28T17:05:00.000+01:002008-04-28T17:05:00.000+01:00I know it's bee a while, rather it's been forever....I know it's bee a while, rather it's been forever. Just checking on you, hope you'r doing great? Howz #1 and has #2 finally arrived? take care of you and hope to hear from u soon. Much loveRinsolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16798177000810486999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-31216915871117848992008-04-25T16:35:00.000+01:002008-04-25T16:35:00.000+01:00how have u been?how have u been?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15408417396722620857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-25749492634774703042008-04-21T20:22:00.000+01:002008-04-21T20:22:00.000+01:00how now?how now?SOLOMONSYDELLEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17564768670896215900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-73452911774969907022008-04-17T15:34:00.000+01:002008-04-17T15:34:00.000+01:00i think ur neighbour is just an unfit mother! look...i think ur neighbour is just an unfit mother! look @ her screaming at d housegirl! who did she think d girl learnt d 'wakadugbe' from? kettle calling pot black<BR/><BR/>anyway, abt those impersonal neighbourly relations, i must admit am so totally guilty. am so protective of my space, dat i can only manage 'how is it going' conversations maybe wen am coming back home & i jam u outside, or during those 'yard' meetings. but 4 me 2 go visiting, lie lie. & also don't come 2 my own place o.Flourishing Floridahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13587385454888882192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-52233463192230538382008-04-14T16:54:00.000+01:002008-04-14T16:54:00.000+01:00sweetie are you ok? how is my baby?sweetie <BR/><BR/><BR/>are you ok? <BR/><BR/>how is my baby?darkelceehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08819761365097293555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-64787538629433461512008-04-11T13:58:00.000+01:002008-04-11T13:58:00.000+01:00sorry o! I was rushing out - so couldn't respond. ...sorry o! I was rushing out - so couldn't respond. I will respond with a LONG message later on tonight when I get home...<BR/><BR/>Jejely....I want to say something but ehm ehm ehmAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-47462244056405217102008-04-11T11:20:00.000+01:002008-04-11T11:20:00.000+01:00Me thinks baby has come...I miss you so much...sob...Me thinks baby has come...<BR/><BR/>I miss you so much...sob sob...Afrobabehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01418456633732918114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-79394196704110743922008-04-07T14:49:00.000+01:002008-04-07T14:49:00.000+01:00Where are you? Hope all is well.Even a one liner i...Where are you? Hope all is well.<BR/><BR/>Even a one liner is fine with usThirty +https://www.blogger.com/profile/07121365037538472378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-36501969570778463812008-04-06T21:52:00.000+01:002008-04-06T21:52:00.000+01:00This post is particularly interesting to me. Like ...This post is particularly interesting to me. Like Uzo, I am uncomfortable with getting neighbours all up in my business. I have lived in the same area for more than 20 years and yet enter only one house. If my other neighbours have had their interiors re-done since the 80s, I wouldn't know about it. I prefer to keep to myself. I'm also pretty shy which means that it is pretty difficult for me to become the sort of person that will initiate conversation between myself and a neighbour.<BR/><BR/>Jinta, I think you may have rushed to judge her too quickly. Why? I have been considering moving out of my parent's house such that it would have been just me and my kid + a nanny. If I had done that, I would have found myself in the same shoes. We had an situation at work last month and I had to spend several nights there. I would go to work in the morning and sometimes not return till the about 6 a.m...sleep a bit and hit the office again. A few times, I would get home after work just to see my kid and be off again. I have joked with my colleagues that my neighbours must be full of theories about what I get up to. You don't know what she's up to. The money she makes from working is important in ensuring that she gives her daughter a good life. She was just unfortunate not to have trustworthy help and again, her reaction when she found out what was happening points to the fact that she was unhappy to find that her child was left on her own. <BR/><BR/>Also, I doubt very much if I would want to drop my child off at a neighbour's. Too many pervs out there and you never really know people. <BR/><BR/>It's an unfortunate situation.In my head and around mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07013160510388092321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-29565113711907158592008-04-06T20:38:00.000+01:002008-04-06T20:38:00.000+01:00my sista, how body?my sista, how body?SOLOMONSYDELLEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17564768670896215900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-6411331953117851032008-04-05T03:38:00.000+01:002008-04-05T03:38:00.000+01:00yUMMY MOMMY...just stopped by to check up on u... ...yUMMY MOMMY...just stopped by to check up on u... hope ux2 and the family are doing fine .. ... x x xxArewahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00469525260780799436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-85648401133202873622008-04-03T15:09:00.000+01:002008-04-03T15:09:00.000+01:00'Moni plz update!Even if na oneliner,lol!I hope u ...'Moni plz update!<BR/>Even if na oneliner,lol!<BR/><BR/>I hope u are keeping well dear.princesahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09206405119446956019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-92095321269582187822008-04-02T18:31:00.000+01:002008-04-02T18:31:00.000+01:00hmmmm. feelin u on this one.hmmmm. feelin u on this one.badderchichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10627476312018787583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-9524565041676199252008-04-02T15:57:00.000+01:002008-04-02T15:57:00.000+01:00times indeed have changed,people now leave an isol...times indeed have changed,<BR/>people now leave an isolated life just to maintain the 'upper class' thingy<BR/>poor child,<BR/><BR/>not that its my biz but where will a mother leave her home to for the whole nite?<BR/><BR/>btw, how are u and urs doing madam?Ms. emmotionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10258010937000796150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-87061722294777568142008-04-02T04:06:00.000+01:002008-04-02T04:06:00.000+01:00my sista, how body?my sista, how body?SOLOMONSYDELLEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17564768670896215900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-38619409736356817042008-04-01T22:50:00.000+01:002008-04-01T22:50:00.000+01:00Sister Happy Easter (like this is so belated)Oya u...Sister Happy Easter (like this is so belated)<BR/><BR/>Oya update where you atThirty +https://www.blogger.com/profile/07121365037538472378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-83629745735635276232008-03-31T21:56:00.000+01:002008-03-31T21:56:00.000+01:00Same thing that's been on my mind..i live in a hou...Same thing that's been on my mind..i live in a house of 3 flats and can you imagine my neighbour had a baby and i felt odd buying a gift and going over to her flat because that was the most conversation we ever had in over a year of living in the same compound! Not like i'm not nice but everyone just has this i'm busy stuck up attitude and when you ask questions or get too familiar, it's almost like..what you nosing for! That would never happen when i was a kid! My neighbour's kid(very young boy) is chatting to me..i have none yet..and i hear the father shouting his name like he'd followed a stranger! I wonder where the paranoia is from! I've promised myself to show myself friendly to my neighbours no matter the attitude they put up..love can thaw the ice queen! Lol<BR/>Meanwhile..your neighbour sef hard o!Writefreakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03457464940195376970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-70349584092143662242008-03-29T14:52:00.000+01:002008-03-29T14:52:00.000+01:00Babe, couldn't find ur email address any where...U...Babe, couldn't find ur email address any where...U don born???Afrobabehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01418456633732918114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-75042151547743666472008-03-29T14:50:00.000+01:002008-03-29T14:50:00.000+01:00This comment has been removed by the author.Afrobabehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01418456633732918114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-40802816480374133232008-03-29T10:29:00.000+01:002008-03-29T10:29:00.000+01:00I dunno mayn buh I dnt think sth like that would h...I dunno mayn buh I dnt think sth like that would happen in ma zone sha...I had a full realization of that when ma parents left for Israel two weeks...ma net door neighbour was always comin to check on us, everyday and stuff...I guess it all depends on the people and the area...u can't expect as much privacy in a face me i face u haus...Charihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09533015808516013285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31577397.post-82787757064398815652008-03-29T10:23:00.000+01:002008-03-29T10:23:00.000+01:00Yeah Its very sad indeed...but what exactly canwe ...Yeah Its very sad indeed...but what exactly canwe do to make the difference, cuz our elders say that many lizards lie down on the ground but its the thin skin that hides theri stomach pain..how can u tell whether ur smiling neighbour is a psychopath...I am not preaching paranoia but we have to look at all angles to everythingCharihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09533015808516013285noreply@blogger.com